The funny thing about adultfrienders websites is that there are so many of them, and it seems that the same group of people populate these sites. I’m not saying that we’re talking about the exact same physical group of people. I’m talking about the mindset.
It’s very easy to look at these types of websites as some sort of time machine to junior high school. Do you remember junior high school? Probably back then, you had a pizza face, you had serious pimples, and nobody liked you. You probably went home and jerked off a lot and wished that life was just one big porno. Fast forward to today, you’re probably a more stable, mature person. Congratulations to you. Unfortunately, nothing can bring back all those ridiculous and embarrassing memories of your junior high school years and getting caught up into some adult friends’ drama.
Sure, a lot of these places involve people who try to pass themselves off as cool, calm, collected and otherwise mature. Don’t let that act fool you. they may seem like they have their act together but when it comes to the sensitive nature of sex, all their personal demons come out and guess what, you’re going to get caught in the cross fire. If you don’t want to get caught up in all sorts of unnecessary drama and bullshit, you just need to adopt one rule. The rule is never let it get personal.
If you are serious about that you want to find someone to fuck you join an adult friender’s site, just focus on what you’re looking for. You don’t need to bullshit me, you’re looking for sex. That’s it. Keep it at that level and you will not get hurt. Otherwise, it’s just too much time, effort, energy. Who has time for that drama?